Fear is a natural emotion that humans experience. Fear can be a natural mechanism that raises awareness of potential dangers while also increasing love and affection for what we have. However, excessive fear can be damaging to one's well-being.
Tips to deal with excessive fear
It is natural for humans to be afraid. Fear is a natural human instinct that allows us to identify potential threats and make the best protective decisions. However, developing an excessive fear of seemingly harmless things, such as public speaking or meeting new people, can prevent you from growing.
If you frequently experience excessive fear, here are some strategies you can use to deal with it:
1. Face the fear
In some cases, the fear will vanish once you dare to do what you are afraid of. Avoiding the fear will only make you think negatively and exacerbate your fear. Some strategies for dealing with fear include:
- Determine the cause of the fear. Knowing the source of your fear allows you to better manage it. Writing in a journal on a regular basis can help you identify the source of your fear and learn how to manage it
- Discard negative thoughts. Fear is frequently associated with negative emotions and thoughts about fears that are unlikely to occur. To deal with it, stop thinking negatively and instead start thinking positively about how you can overcome it
- Start slowly. Facing fear is a gradual process that takes time. You may fail on the first try, but don't give up if the fear returns. You may find it difficult at first, but with a few tries, you will become accustomed to it and be able to deal with it more effectively
- Instill confidence. Confidence can give you the courage to face your fears. Instill in your mind that everything will be fine so that you can face your fears more confidently
2. Do self-calming exercises
Excessive fear can cause physical symptoms such as a racing heart, cold sweats, and dry, pale lips.Breathing exercises can help you relax and cope.
Take a deep breath, hold it for 3–5 seconds, then exhale. Repeat until you feel more relaxed. In addition to breathing exercises, you can distract yourself by drinking water or focusing on something else.
3. Practice more
For example, if you have an excessive fear of public speaking, practice in front of a mirror until you have the courage or confidence to face it.
Do the exercise gradually, such as by talking for a few minutes, then increase the duration. If you started by practicing speaking in front of a mirror, now try it in front of friends and family.
4. Seek professional help
If the methods listed above have not been effective in overcoming your excessive fear, you should speak with a mental health professional. A doctor or psychologist will examine you and then recommend therapy or treatment based on your diagnosis.
Fear is a natural emotion for humans to experience.However, if a person's excessive fear interferes with their daily activities, it is best to talk to a psychiatrist or psychologist.
If you need medical advice or consultation, you can either visit a doctor or make use of the consultation features that are available in the Ai Care application by downloading the Ai Care application from the App Store or Play Store.
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- Sean Edbert Lim, MBBS
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